Today’s blog was originally published under a different title on September 5, 2021. With a few minor changes, I am reprinting it in its entirety. My wife Linda is nearing the end of her long struggle with Alzheimer’s. Therefore, I feel compelled to share what I have learned with caregivers who are just beginning the... Continue Reading →

Sometimes, all of us face a challenge so great that the chasm between hope and hopelessness seems insurmountable -- with no way over, around, or through. The solution to this predicament is found in a simple principle: Two opposing cognitions cannot be held over time -- either hope or hopelessness must go. When I choose... Continue Reading →

Prior to Linda’s developing Alzheimer’s, I thought I was prepared to help others understand what happens between birth and death. However, after helplessly watching normal growth and development be reversed as she has slowly moved toward infancy, I am humbled by how little I know! At this point in our journey into the “Long Goodbye,”... Continue Reading →

When I prepare to celebrate the glorious resurrection of Christ, an unusual, conflicting memory often surfaces:  I was between eight and ten years old, Sunday School was over, and I, along with a group of boys, was preparing to march inside and be a part of “Big Church.” And, then it happened! With the sun... Continue Reading →

In last week’s blog, I noted that long-term caregivers to those who suffer from various forms of dementia constantly struggle with uncertainty: What will I face next? How can I meet the needs of my loved one without destroying myself in the process? Why do I sometimes feel as if I am riding an emotional... Continue Reading →