Early in my studies of human behavior, I was bothered because many of the secular theorists offered seemingly workable solutions regarding happiness, which appeared to often be missing among the followers of Christ. I soon discovered their theories fell apart when viewed in light of eternity. Conversely, the life of Abraham demonstrates God’s capacity to... Continue Reading →

Even though I am accustomed to seeing daily changes in Linda’s condition, this week I was caught off guard by the range of her symptoms and behaviors: During last Sunday’s visit, we spent most of our time walking, frequently stopping for her to clean tables or rearrange pillows. She was very agitated on Monday, hurriedly... Continue Reading →

As a long-term primary caregiver to my wonderful wife Linda, who suffers from Alzheimer’s, I have survived my share of storms. Therefore, I am often asked by those who are just beginning the journey how to prepare for victory and avoid defeat. My answer begins with a simplistic assertion: “Far more important than how many... Continue Reading →

When watching a loved one struggle with a diagnosis of Alzheimer’s, it is normal for them, as well as for us, to ask, “Why?” As would be expected, in the beginning Linda struggled more than I. After all, she was the one beginning an unplanned journey into the unknown, while I was, at that time,... Continue Reading →

In my previous blog, reflecting on the unpredictability of being a primary caregiver to an Alzheimer’s patient, I noted: “During the early years, I searched for useful materials to help me develop a plan of action and measure my progress. Even though I found some helpful sources, most were, as would be expected, painted with... Continue Reading →

The picture accompanying today’s blog fails to reveal the details behind the story. Taken Friday night, as Linda sat with her baby doll waiting for bedtime, the obvious joy on her face depicts tranquility, which was very real at that moment! However, it doesn’t give a hint as to what transpired in the previous days;... Continue Reading →

What does February 2018 have in common with August 2021? I would not be surprised, nor would I blame you, if you chose to answer, “I don’t know and I don’t care!” However, I hope you will stay with me while I share how God used a teaching of Jesus to illustrate a wonderful truth about... Continue Reading →

The picture accompanying today’s blog provides a glimpse into the personality and accomplishments of my wonderful wife to whom I have been married for nearly fifty-eight years. It was recently taken on National Mac and Cheese Day and Linda, properly attired, had been chosen to hold the ingredients while the Activities Director mixed them. They... Continue Reading →

Today’s blog will complete year one. My continuing mission is to present an accurate picture of the devastating impact of Alzheimer’s, while sharing how God has used this horrible disease to bring Linda and me to a better understanding of the truly important issues of life. When viewing the picture accompanying today’s edition, taken several weeks... Continue Reading →

Have you ever been tempted to feel sorry for yourself?  It’s a common temptation for caregivers to dementia patients. I’m usually able to “nip it in the bud;” however, last week was different. It all began, when I learned that room visits at Legacy Village were going to be paused for several days. I understood why... Continue Reading →