I often entertain Linda by asking a question, “Do you know the first thing I am going to do when I get to Heaven?” Invariably, she says, “What?” And, I respond, “I am going to find you, take you by the hand, and, like little children, we are going to laugh and dance all over... Continue Reading →
Riding an Emotional Roller Coaster
Riding roller coasters is fun! In a matter of minutes, joy and fear overwhelm you in repetitive waves. Throughout our years together, especially when our children were young, Linda and I rode some real thrillers. In retrospect, I wonder if her apparent willingness to participate might have been more about being with the children and... Continue Reading →
Journeying to an Unexpected Destination
The title of this week’s blog is a contradiction in terminology and hints of a possible adventure; however, as a primary caregiver to a loved one suffering dementia, living through such a time is torturous. Before discussing the details, let’s fast forward to last Friday and I will allow you to eavesdrop on a far... Continue Reading →
Appreciating Caregivers
Most people passing by Legacy Village probably view those three words with sincere respect. For those of us who have family members living there, they have much greater meaning. Each day, as the caregiving team faithfully meets the needs of those whom many consider unnecessary; I become more aware that they grasp something that the... Continue Reading →
Fulfilling My Vows
Last Monday was a day of contrasts. During a virtual visit with Linda, she was happy to see me, but not able to carry on a conversation. Haltingly, we sang, Amazing Grace and When the Battle is Over. Later, I wrote in my journal: “Today is our fifty -seventh anniversary and people in India, Portugal, Taiwan and Israel read my blog.... Continue Reading →
Trusting God
TRUST GOD! When facing a trial or hardship, almost all followers of Christ have been given that advice; and it is usually given by someone who genuinely cares for us. For me, the authenticity of the admonition is never an issue; however, applying it to a situation that I am facing is another story. My... Continue Reading →