Read about the Harvard’s journey,
from the beginning of “Walking Victoriously Through the Long Goodbye”


  • Living in the Present (part 1)

    Living in the Present (part 1)

    Individuals who are able to correctly conceptualize the relationship between the past, present, and future are positioned to live joyful and productive lives; however, all too often this desirable and achievable goal is short-circuited by the time trap: an unhealthy tendency to live in the past or rush toward the future at breakneck speed. Throughout Read more

  • Living in the Present (part 2)

    Living in the Present (part 2)

    In last week’s blog, I noted that Linda’s struggle with Alzheimer’s has taught me how to successfully live in the present. Before then, my greatest hinderance was erroneously connecting my personal joy with the circumstances surrounding me — good times equal great joy, tough times equal great despair. Over time, in the crucible of suffering, Read more

  • Living in the Present (part 3)

    Living in the Present (part 3)

    Upon beginning this three-part series, I noted that the obvious intentionality etched on Linda’s face in the accompanying picture, which was taken on January 13, was at odds with so much that has transpired since that time. I had no idea how quickly that comparison would be rendered obsolete. Today, I will share my thoughts under Read more

  • Dying

    Dying

    During nearly four decades of pastoring, my ability to comfort those who were facing death was sometimes hindered by sincere, well-intentioned persons who insisted that we can remain healthy until God calls us home. Such a view point denies the medical reality that more often than not, death is a painful process, as well as Read more

  • Finding Hidden Treasures

    Finding Hidden Treasures

    The Apostle Paul, who suffered greatly while on earth, provided remarkable insight into what motivated him to continue to move forward in the midst of overwhelming adversity: That is why we never give up. Though our bodies are dying, our spirits are being renewed every day. For our present troubles are small and won’t last Read more

  • What’s Next?

    What’s Next?

    Before addressing today’s topic, I am going to revisit the cardinal issue around which last week’s blog was built. My reason for doing so will soon be very apparent. In writing a second letter to a group of persons who might be prone to wander away from doctrinal integrity and moral purity during times of Read more

  • Praying the Psalms

    Praying the Psalms

    Three days ago, while having morning devotions with Linda, I enjoyed a wonderful encounter with God. Before sharing the details, let me first discuss my tumultuous introduction to the Psalms.  In my twenties, I knew that the Psalms were important because they are quoted more in the New Testament than any other Old Testament book; Read more

  • Dealing with Uncertainty (part 1)

    Dealing with Uncertainty (part 1)

    Even though it has often been said that a picture is worth a thousand words, seldom do I find one that encapsulates my feelings, as well as the reality of my spiritual foundation. The picture accompanying today’s blog does both: In the natural realm, I am immersed in uncertainty and feel so alone; however, God Read more

  • Dealing with Uncertainty (part 2)

    Dealing with Uncertainty (part 2)

    Long-term caregivers to those who suffer from various forms of dementia constantly struggle with uncertainty: What will I face next? How can I meet the needs of my loved one without destroying myself in the process? Why do I sometimes feel as if I am riding an emotional roller coaster? Is it normal to feel Read more

  • Dealing with Uncertainty (part 3)

    Dealing with Uncertainty (part 3)

    In last week’s blog, I noted that long-term caregivers to those who suffer from various forms of dementia constantly struggle with uncertainty: What will I face next? How can I meet the needs of my loved one without destroying myself in the process? Why do I sometimes feel as if I am riding an emotional Read more